How To Avoid Embarrassing Yourself In An Argument - Jordan Peterson

  • Опубликовано: Год назад

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    Длительность: 11:45

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    Jordan Peterson VS Cathy Newman Debate
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    How To Shut Down Conversational Bullies
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    Have you seen the Jordan Peterson and Cathy Newman debate?
    See for yourself how he deals with it and give us your opinion in the comments!
    We've all found ourselves in conversation and felt attacked like we started off talking about one thing and then the other person twisted our words and before we knew it, we lost our cool, lost respect in their eyes, and maybe even acted like a jerk. Now, I don't normally do the same person twice in a row but this interview between Cathy Newman and Jordan Peterson was just too interesting of an opportunity to discuss how you can handle someone who uses subtle conversational tricks to bully you into looking dumb. So in this video, you're gonna see firsthand some of the most common tricks that people might be using on you and you're also gonna learn how to reverse those so that you can walk out of a kind of aggressive situation having earned more respect than you had going in.
    So first off, to stop a conversational bully, you have to realize what's going on before it's too late. Now, typically, a person will reveal their aggressive attitude early on with their tone of voice and their word choice. Check out the rest that we will show in this video and how Jordan Peterson tackles them.
    1:49 Jordan Peterson deals with so-you're-saying trap
    2:39 Jordan Peterson deals with the "assuming the sale"
    5:30 Jordan Peterson deals with the smash technique
    7:08 But don't straw man the other person's ideas though
    7:47 And visual imagery can also help
    8:25 You can show them that they're already agreeing with you
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shafi khan
shafi khan

I am against the death penalty: in the world, the average is a very peaceful people very few do the crime?

Час назад
Ryan Fisher
Ryan Fisher

Well said youngman..

3 часа назад
drakkar twentyd
drakkar twentyd

watched this whole interview just minutes ago Cathy Newman proved basically that she was a moron , did nothing but try and put words in his mouth and had no intelligent arguments , in fact she didn't even listen to the words that came out of his mouth , I have no idea who would employ her as an interviewer , she's pathetic

5 часов назад
MonkeyPrankz
MonkeyPrankz

There were definitely trees a 300 million years ago.....

5 часов назад
DODECAHEDRON ICOSAEDRON
DODECAHEDRON ICOSAEDRON

Just use the green rubbish bin for biological product in decay or as an alternative you can put her in a shredder to avoid toxic decay . This female or i would say this thing is an abomination , not even human .

7 часов назад
traderpax
traderpax

welcome to the world of talking to a liberal.

8 часов назад
Alberto Alvidrez
Alberto Alvidrez

Poor lady she humiliated her self on national television.

10 часов назад
Joseph Kool
Joseph Kool

These two need to get a room

11 часов назад
Mannmade
Mannmade

Also notice both of their body language. He very relaxed and confident and she's sitting upright tense and very confrontational.

12 часов назад
Kati Agrella
Kati Agrella

The reporter's hair looks like ramen

12 часов назад
J
J

I wouldn't have said gotcha, I'd have stared at her in complete silence, watching her squirm.

14 часов назад
doublea125
doublea125

*S o y o u ' r e s a y i n g*

15 часов назад
UltimateBargains
UltimateBargains

Freedom of Speech means that *NOBODY* has the right *NOT* to be offended.

17 часов назад
The Enclave
The Enclave

So you are sayin' No you are sayin' that Im sayin'

19 часов назад
Shanklevision
Shanklevision

ITT: people who watch videos about how to be cool.

20 часов назад
Puran Dhaka Gamers
Puran Dhaka Gamers

*well I surely started searching Jordan Peterson and his debates after watching this video about a year ago*

21 час назад
ceku 1881
ceku 1881

11 minutes and 44 seconds of stating the obvious

23 часа назад
Flatulence The Unending
Flatulence The Unending

Wow man congrats on the teaching position at Harvard. You'll do the psychology department proud

23 часа назад
Tomáš Bernáth
Tomáš Bernáth

Buddy don't give him advices please it looks silly

День назад
roquefortfiles
roquefortfiles

I would say to this chick... "Well, when you're done burying me with your landslide of questions you let me know"

День назад
Kennon Mangrum
Kennon Mangrum

What if someone is Just strate up unreasonable and over welms you through volume and tone in an argument

День назад
labinott
labinott

Don't bite more then you can chew because your career might end on 11 minute interviews! When God made Mr. Jordan Peterson he took the time and said "it was great one " 😁😁

День назад
Isaia Taotua
Isaia Taotua

My friends at Berkeley thought he was a Nazi, gave him a quick google search and best believe I’ve cleaned my room

День назад
Mogul DaMongrel
Mogul DaMongrel

Punch em in the face is the easiest fastest reversal of any spiteful snide manipulative passive aggressive scenario to date. Killing also works, once you kill a few people for attempting it, everyone else tends to mind their tongue. I digress. This is more in regards to todays societal norms where character assassination is preferable to ordered debates, and disagreements. Sensationalized reality tv syndrome of drama queens an kings.

День назад
Nigel Banks
Nigel Banks

Man alive your videos are gold !!!!

День назад
Hannes
Hannes

What an obnoxious human being, this woman. I wonder why she wasn't fired on an instamt

День назад
Jesse Rose
Jesse Rose

I realized watching this that i can definitely use some bully tactics when debating liberals. But i also just realized that essentially every liberal argument can be knocked down like a straw man, because they are all straw man arguments: weak and no logical support

День назад
Kavahsiae jordan
Kavahsiae jordan

Simple answer. STAY CALM!!!!!!

День назад
Devos
Devos

This man is a LEGEND

День назад
Matt the Modest
Matt the Modest

Quick question: I have noticed over the years that more and more, native English-speakers, mispronouncing "Women". Why is that?

День назад
Jim Watson
Jim Watson

Simple, let the other person speak and hang themselves!

День назад
Patrick
Patrick

The utter genius of Peterson just gobsmacks me every damn time.

День назад
Michael McAuliffe
Michael McAuliffe

Fascinating. I think the world would be a better place if all of us took the time to logically discuss issues, instead of getting emotional and making assumptions about the motivations of others. This is especially true, in today’s divided political climate where people consider others with different views as “the enemy.” As an aside, it also reminds me of a scene from the original Star Trek series’ episode, “Space Seed.” In it, Khan attempts to assess the situation during a dinner conversation with the senior staff of the Enterprise: KHAN: You are an excellent tactician, Captain. You let your second in command attack while you sit and watch for weakness. KIRK: You have a tendency to express ideas in military terms, Mister Khan. This is a social occasion. KHAN: It has been said that social occasions are only warfare concealed. Many prefer it more honest, more open.

2 дня назад
Gulzt
Gulzt

@charisma on command Could you share the link to the original interview (in your description)? Thanks

2 дня назад
News Moto
News Moto

I watch this video every time I'm about to go into a heated argument with my wife 😂😅

2 дня назад
Boadie Gaza
Boadie Gaza

this is so deep

2 дня назад
Alejandro Loaiza
Alejandro Loaiza

HAIL LOBSTERS!

2 дня назад
Nitro Gang
Nitro Gang

Me: I'd rather have a wife that cooks and take care of my child. Women: so your saying your wife should stay home? Me: yes that's exactly what im saying.

2 дня назад
City Hunter
City Hunter

He basically put her to ponder on her own pre-concieved framework of values, ethics & train of thought: he deconstructed, like an epistemologist would certain notions that people use as given, and put them to light, while at the same time, showing her, many of her thoughts & ideas, are not her own, but were placed as programming (from some irrational ideology (as there's no scientific falsifiability to become a theory) in this case), also known as social engineering or neuro-hacking (many teachers & subversion agents do that).

2 дня назад
Mark Panapa
Mark Panapa

''Addressing her emotional concern' - He was there to promote his book and debate some of the topics, which they did. There is a comment in the full interview where Cathy openly admits that she is not agreeable. From the interview, I don't think the intention was to be convinced otherwise, but to simply risk being offensive for the sake of not being agreeable. Well that's what I got out of it. Enjoyed your analysis of the interview

2 дня назад
E H
E H

Such a glorious moment though! One can instinctively tell the interveiwer has a hidden aggression, and " unfair" techniques without knowing what they are! To see someone deal with them so well then put that person on the back foot was a pleasure!

2 дня назад
Mikka Koch
Mikka Koch

do it like a creeper just explode

2 дня назад
something else
something else

I think Jordan is a genius.

2 дня назад
Joker411
Joker411

Ha Gotcha!! 😂

2 дня назад
Drole
Drole

Or just never speak to a BBC presenter.

2 дня назад
Jill Bald
Jill Bald

She is channel 4 not BBC. I.e. even more left wing.

2 дня назад
Gregory Burnham
Gregory Burnham

dude, shut up

2 дня назад
Jim Malloy
Jim Malloy

Do good people leave their children THEIR virtually insurmountable debt? Why is it that from 1800-1930, 2/3rds+ of years the USA ran budget surpluses? Since then, 22 trillion + in natl debt! Progressive era economic theory caused this and we can stop it if we understand why it doesn't work! Click on the link for my book and once in Amazon, click the book again for a free preview. If it reads well please get it. It is imperative we get this right before disaster strikes! Learn HOW we can change our ways and get responsible politicians into office! @t

3 дня назад
drakelordiscool
drakelordiscool

I love how consistently Jordan is above it all, he truly is there to present his ideas and is more stubborn than his aggressors in many cases, but man you never see that

3 дня назад
David Little
David Little

There's an old saying - "A wise Person will listen to a Fool but a Fool will never listen to a Wise Person”.

3 дня назад
David Little
David Little

@Travers Wood I've met some where their level was so Low that it was a little bit too steep.

Час назад
Travers Wood
Travers Wood

David Little another great saying; don’t argue with a fool, they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

3 часа назад
Auden Alarcon
Auden Alarcon

Wow, this vid has really opened my mind, Thank you so much. I have always struggled with speech being an introvert and acting on emotions. I could use a crash course on this

3 дня назад

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